What is the rarest thing on earth? Many people would guess jewels, the exotics or something unbelievable expensive that only the mega rich could afford. However, the rarest of the rare in the world lies somewhere closer to your heart. That is a person who can keep their mental state in perfect equilibrium.

The key to success does not lie in ambition or even education. My belief is that success lies in maintaining a balanced spiritual state. Don’t get me wrong, I am not talking about religion. Personally, I don’t even believe in god. The spiritual state I am referring to is the mental struggles everybody deals with.

Nobody is perfect, everybody have their ups and down. However, if you are self employed you would have more ups and down than any ordinary people. Do any of these lines sound familiar? If you work hard, if you have a goal, if you are determine, if you are ambitious… etc you will have what you want at the end. Guess what… it doesn’t always work.

There will always be something that brings your energy level down. One simple stumbling block can make the most ambitious person lose their energy. One negative factor can kill your goal even faster than gambling your fortune away. This simple negative force is like a worm. It tunnel itself into you life. Eventually, it reaches the point that nothing ever goes the way it was supposes to. You’ll notice misfortunes throw themselves at you from every corner.

You should be aware, misfortune occurs because you invite it home. If you don’t believe in yourself and feel the world is against you, then this negative energy is felt by the people near it. It allows you to make mistake and in these mistakes it will produce even more negativity.

If you wake up and claim it is the worst morning you ever have. Of course, the rest of the day will be even worse, because your state of mind is already accepting negativity. It accepts and even expect for misfortune to happen. This is why you don’t say “what else can go wrong”. Of course something will happen and it will be even worse than the previous event.

That is why the rarest of the rare is a person who can keep their mental state in perfect equilibrium. Who do you know have an absolute perfect life without trouble, worries and stress? Who do you know that have never been weighed down by problems. I have never met a person who can claim they have a perfect life. Dead people will be an accepted answer.

This is the reason why people who are self employed need to regenerate their spiritual health regularly. If you don’t feel like you are at the top of the world, how do you expect people to believe in you. Nobody like working with a snarly devil. Frankly you can be the greatest actor on earth and people can still feel your negativity. Negativity never helps sales. If you believe in yourself, people will become influence by your positive energy and believe in you.

So believe in yourself, because that’s the only person who can do it and mean it. The greatest solution is always, if you need to rest, go rest and regenerate your spirit to tackle the next day.